"The pause is as important as the note" āTruman
Fisher
What made you pause this week?
Anything?
You know those moments when you stop scrolling, stop moving, stop overthinking, stop planningā¦
And you completelyĀ STOP?
Has it been a while since you took a full stop or a 30-second pause to truly savor a moment?
You and I are gifted with multiple opportunities every day and yetā¦
They either go unnoticed or we treat them like a to-do item.
Sort of like that scene in the Chevy Chase movie Vacation.
Weāve all done itā¦Iām not the only one, right?
And then this morning before I sat down to write this post,Ā
I made my tea and hurried to my computer thinking, āI have to get this done before sweet Harperāour 10-week-old puppyāwakes from her nap.ā
My schedule turned upside down over the last two weeks and everything work-related feels like a mad scramble between Harperās training, potty breaks, and playtime.
Like for most new puppy parentsā¦she sets the schedule right now, but I wouldnāt change any of it.
Because itās only for a season, and sheās already growing too fast.
And yet, I miss my quiet mornings of tea, reflection, and reconnecting to myself and my dreams.
This morning, after a few sips of tea, I was still drawing a blank on an idea for this weekās newsletter.
Then I realized I hadnāt checked the ātea bag wisdomā Iāve come to appreciate over the years.
For you non-tea drinkers, itās the paper label at the end of the tea bagās string that displays the teaās brand.
But the BEST tea brands, in my opinion, use it as an opportunity to invite tea drinkers to pause.
The words often inspire a new thought or simply slow my thinking enough to consider something other than the next task on my list.
Todayās words were a question:
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āWhat can you appreciate in this moment?ā
My first thought was, “I appreciate having this uninterrupted time to write.”
My next thought was, āGet going, Kim! You donāt have time to dawdle.ā
Fortunately, my inner voice became louder than the voice in my head.
My True Self reminded me to pause and consider this question beyond the first couple of thoughts.
I pausedā¦
I noticed the wide-open morning glories and the honey bees already busy gathering pollenā¦and wondered when they had last paused.
I closed my eyes, took three deep breaths, invited the silence to wash over meā¦and felt my heart rate slow.
Instead of unconsciously drinking my tea, I sipped and savored its earthy tones of cinnamon, ginger, and cardamom.
And as I placed my fingers on the keyboard to writeā¦the idea for this newsletter formed.
My tea bagās wisdom reminded me to pause againā¦to breathe, listen, and decide there were so many more things to appreciate in this moment.
Yes, I still had to write, edit, and schedule this email, but by pausing and surrendering a few minutes to consider what there was to appreciate, my brain relaxedā¦and the words flowed.
In this moment (and hopefully in the week ahead), I invite you to pauseā¦
Be intentional.
Seek lifeās beautiful and surprising elements by using your awareness.
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What can you appreciate in this moment?
For me? Iām grateful for the sweet sounds of a puppy waking and asking to play.